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Everybody Hurts: The Story Behind R.E.M.’s Most Direct Song

October 14, 2026 · by Music Folks

“Everybody Hurts” is the song where R.E.M., a band famous for oblique lyrics, decided to say exactly what they meant. Released as a single from Automatic for the People in 1993, the slow, string-swept ballad was aimed at young listeners going through a hard time, and it has been reaching people ever since, from a 1990s Samaritans campaign to a charity No. 1 in 2010.

Quick Facts

Song: “Everybody Hurts”
Artist: R.E.M.: Michael Stipe, Peter Buck, Mike Mills, Bill Berry
Album: Automatic for the People (1992)
Producers: Scott Litt and R.E.M.
Strings arranged by: John Paul Jones
Single released: April 1993 (Warner Bros.)
Peaks: UK No. 7; US No. 29

A Sketch From the Drummer

The song is credited to all four members, but it began with drummer Bill Berry. Peter Buck remembered him bringing in a short, country-flavored piece with just a verse, and the band shaped it from there. Ironically, Berry’s own drumming was largely replaced by a drum machine on the finished track. Michael Stipe later said the song was inspired by Nazareth’s version of “Love Hurts.”

Saying It Plainly

Buck has said the words are unusually straightforward because the song was meant for teenagers, and it is often described as R.E.M.’s first “message” song: a reassurance to anyone struggling that they are not alone and should hold on. Mike Mills summed up the decision neatly: “There’s a time for obfuscation... But this wasn’t it.” In 1995 the Samaritans, the UK support charity, built a press campaign around the song.

Strings and a Traffic Jam

Former Led Zeppelin bassist John Paul Jones arranged the strings, played by members of the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra. The music video, directed by Jake Scott and filmed in February 1993 on an elevated highway in San Antonio, Texas, shows the band stuck in a traffic jam while subtitles reveal the private thoughts of the drivers around them. Eventually everyone leaves their cars and walks away. The clip won four awards at the 1994 MTV Video Music Awards, including Best Direction.

A Second Life

As a single, the song reached No. 7 in the UK and No. 29 in the US, and topped UK airplay. In 2010, after the earthquake in Haiti, a charity cover by Helping Haiti, an all-star lineup including Robbie Williams and Jon Bon Jovi, went to No. 1 in the UK. R.E.M. waived their royalties, and the single sold 453,000 copies in its first week.

Where R.E.M. Are Now

R.E.M. announced they were calling it a day in September 2011, having been inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2007. All four members reunited to play “Losing My Religion” at the Songwriters Hall of Fame ceremony in June 2024, and surprised fans by turning up at a cover band’s show in Athens, Georgia, in February 2025. As of October 2026, though, they have repeatedly ruled out a full reunion.

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Tagged: 1990s, Alternative, American